These traits include: Narcissism, Psychopathy, and  Machiavelliianism which all lend themselves to short-term relationships including disappointment and disillusionment for the girl.


Reproduction is for the survival of the species and has a powerful affect on which person you choose as a boyfriend especially when a girl has her period.

It may be hard to believe but parents were young once. They faced the same teenage angst when dealing with sex, love, and where they fit in.

Talk to your parents.  Make them understand you by expressing your feelings and not shutting them out. They can tell when something is going on.  Building a wall around you to defend against being judged doesn't allow the people who love you help you. 

Parents can help by guiding their teens and not dictating values they have so young people will arrive at the conclusion on their own which is a lesson they won’t forget. Creating and sustaining healthy Interpersonal relationships can be hard.  It's a trial and error process. Problems are solutions in the making. Open up and talk it out.  Your best friend might be living in the same house all the time.

"I Knew You Were Trouble"

Once upon a time a few mistakes ago I was in your sights, you got me alone You found me, you found me, you found me I guess you didn't care, and I guess I liked that And when I fell hard you took a step back Without me, without me, without me And he's long gone when he's next to me And I realize the blame is on me 'Cause I knew you were trouble when you walked in So shame on me now Flew me to places I'd never been 'Til you put me down, oh I knew you were trouble when you walked in So shame on me now Flew me to places I'd never been Now I'm lying on the cold hard ground Oh, oh, ([Sammy Adams:] you know I'm) trouble, trouble, trouble you know I'm Oh, oh, you know I'm) trouble, trouble, trouble Oh, oh, I told you I was, I was) trouble, trouble, trouble Oh, oh, trouble, trouble, trouble Double platinum wherever she go South of France to Reno Met her out in Vegas Went in on casino Red lips so hard to miss What's wrong with being promiscuous And I can teach you bad, bad things If you into it Don't need to get intimate...just yet Slow down, I know that You thinking you and me...just met But girl, I got the remedy most important in chemistry Good girl gone bad too much for a Kennedy Some say, some say, they sell they souls for a couple hits I'd rather live a life of gold with a perfect chick Cause that one moment when your breathless and your hoping And ya feel the same way, same way Sparks blowing off that cute face and that shy smile...oh man I haven't crushed this hard in quite a while...oh damn And I can care less that your famous We can make the perfect couple Cause my first name big, last name trouble YeahI knew you were trouble when you walked in So shame on me now Flew me to places I'd never been 'Til you put me down, oh I knew you were trouble when you walked in So shame on me now Flew me to places I'd never been Now I'm lying on the cold hard ground Oh, oh, ([Sammy Adams:] you know I'm) trouble, trouble, trouble.Oh, oh you know 'm trouble, trouble, trouble And the saddest fear comes creeping in That you never loved me, or her, or anyone, or anything, I knew you were trouble when you walked in So shame on me now Flew me to places I'd never been 'Til you put me down, oh I knew you were trouble when you walked in you were right there, you were right there So shame on me now Flew me to places I'd never been Now I'm lying on the cold hard ground Oh, oh, trouble, trouble, trouble Oh, oh, trouble, trouble, trouble I knew you were trouble when you walked in Trouble, trouble, trouble I knew you were trouble when you walked in Trouble, trouble, trouble - Taylor Swift


The Psychology of Teen Relationships
“I Knew You Were Trouble” is the story of a good girls emotional blindness and ensuing angst when she falls for a “bad boy.”






Their eyes meet and the chemistry is undeniable as love at first sight blinds her from seeing she is destined to walk down a path to emotional self-destruction.

The attraction is birthed out of a misguided challenge to change another person who doesn’t want to change which creates a sense of excitement in her. Emotional unavailability and sexual attraction put an intermittent reinforcement schedule into motion.Bad boy's have Dark Triad Personality Traits.

"If music be the food of love, play on." - Shakespeare, Writer

When teens are going through physical, hormonal and emotional transitions they feel emotionally vulnerable and confused.


Parents can help their teens by being available on a consistent basis. Help them understand that they are not defined by their feelings and it’s all right to make mistakes because its how you learn. Being used hurts. Trusting your feelings about a boy is key to protecting yourself.


Self-esteem involves setting boundaries when it comes to safely exploring sexuality.








When a young person arrives at the conclusion that they “should have known better” it says they are growing up. 


Emotional growth sometimes comes from pain which is a part of finding self-love. Separating  emotions from the logical thought process helps create a picture, a lasting impression that can be recalled whenever a red flag appears when meeting someone new.


Trusting yourself to make the right decisions the next time is the result. Emotions serve many purposes and should be listened to not avoided.  


Love brings a feeling of elevated self-worth but being blind to the reality of why you feel this way can set you up for being hurt.


Finding true love isn't easy. Losing yourself in the process is hard when you deny the truth in exchange for the feeling. Don't let feelings define you. Discern neediness from a true connection.




MUSIC

 I Knew You Were Trouble...

"Once upon a time a few mistakes ago I was in your sights, you got me alone You found me, you found me, you found me I guess you didn't care, and I guess I liked that And when I fell hard you took a step back Without me, without me, without me And he's long gone when he's next to me And I realize the blame is on me 'Cause I knew you were trouble when you walked in So shame on me now. Flew me to places I'd never been 'Til you put me down, oh. I knew you were trouble when you walked in. So shame on me now... Flew me to places I'd never been Now I'm lying on the cold hard ground Oh, oh, you know I'm) trouble, trouble, trouble ] you know I'm). Oh, oh, you know I'm) trouble, trouble, trouble. Oh, oh, I told you I was, I was trouble, trouble, trouble... Oh, oh, trouble, trouble, trouble Double platinum wherever she go...South of France to Reno. Met her out in Vegas. Went in on casino Red lips so hard to miss. What's wrong with being promiscuous...And I can teach you bad, bad things If you into it. Don't need to get intimate...just yet
Slow down, I know that You thinking you and me...just met. But girl, I got the remedy most important in chemistry. Good girl gone bad too much for a Kennedy Some say, some say, they sell they souls for a couple hits I'd rather live a life of gold with a perfect chick Cause that one moment when your breathless and your hoping And ya feel the same way, same way Sparks blowing off that cute face and that shy smile...oh
man I haven't crushed this hard in quite a while...oh damn. And I can care less that your famous
We can make the perfect couple Cause my first name big, last name trouble Yeah I knew you were trouble when you walked in So shame on me now Flew me to places I'd never been '